A friend of me has just lost her seven (7) years boyfriend. They have been together for so long. It was a shock death. He has no illness, but he died in his sleep. According to her, they had a serious fight a week before he passed away. A serious fight until they need a help from the families to settle the problem. Marriage was in the corner but when third party involved (which was another man who created a story about them both), the plan was postpone. Can you imagine how misery she is right now? She suffers of his death. It was so sudden. An hour ago, he was there talking with her, and just in a flash, he is gone. The mother of the dead young man cannot bear the fact of the lost of her only son. And my friend is left to be blamed.
What is the barrier that has caused to the postponing of the marriage? Yes, the third man created a story (slander) of my friend has slept with him. Means my friend is having an affair all this while and is cheating on him when she pursued her degree in UK. She was away for four (4) years and they maintained the relationship along the years. When she came back, I clearly remember it’s him who she wanted to see. She has longed for the moment to come. She missed him. And until this writing is out, she is still missing him. It is seven years, they shared everything, laughter and cry. It is not easy to handle the loss, especially when you know it is not a happy-ending. You fight, he sleeps, and he dies, without giving you a chance to solve the problem out and be in the relationship as usual. He is gone.
To Tia my friend - be strong.
To Fendi – may you rest in peace with Him in His kingdom.
To the third man – are you happy now? May you live forever.
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